LET THEM GO, SO THEY CAN GROW

As our oldest boy was packing his car to head back to college a couple weeks ago, his mom stood in the doorway with tears in her eyes, and I watched with pride as he methodically packed everything in its place. As parents, I believe that one of our jobs is to train our children to be independent and live their own lives. If that’s done successfully, it can be the most fulfilling, yet heart wrenching feeling.

Let’s take a moment and think about how trees release their children (seeds). When a tree’s seed is mature, it’s time to let it go. When a seed falls, if it stays too close to the parent tree there may not be enough nourishment for all to thrive and grow effectively. Sometimes animals and rain (jobs, friends, or future spouse) will pick up the seed and carry it further away than intended, but still to a place where it can grow effectively. Ideally, a gentle breeze will cradle it to just the right location where all can admire its growth. The point is, no matter how the seed leaves the tree, it can’t grow if it doesn’t leave.

One of our little seeds safely placed to spout.

Every time our son comes home we’re fulfilled and every time he packs his car to leave it’s heart wrenching. We raised him to the best of our ability and no matter where his travels take him, we must have faith in where he lands and pray the winds carry him home every now and again.

Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.