DECISION DECISIONS

I have been blessed to have been given the opportunity to sit right next to both my sons when they had the opportunity to shoot at their first deer. This was a monumental moment in their youth.

 

“The boys,” as they are routinely called in our house, have heard deer hunting stories since birth. The stories range from the incredible food we eat (like beef stroganoff, homemade spaghetti and meatballs, and the “deer hunting cookies”) to stories of success and defeat in the woods. The boys had a good idea of what the woods looked like from pictures. So, when they turned 12 and had completed firearms safety training they could go with deer hunting. Once that happened we would start planning the trip. The boys would receive plenty of advice from the older men in our group. I gave them plenty of advice as well, but my final words were, “it's better to regret not taking a shot than to regret taking a bad one.”

The morning of the hunt would finally arrive. We’d pack up our gear and head to the woods. Once in our deer stand I’d offer a few last bits of advice. We’d quietly sit side by side in pitch black and wait for the woods to come alive. Whoever saw a deer first would tap the other person’s foot with their boot. For both boys the deer came from my side of the stand, which meant the boys could move about without being seen. In our woods, you typically only get a few seconds to make a good shot. That is when the adrenaline starts to pump. You can hear your heart pounding and wonder how the deer can’t hear it. The boys would shift back and forth trying the find the target in their sights. I could imagine them filtering through all the advice they received, and now it was time to make a decision; only a second left and the opportunity would be gone.

Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation where you’d had to make a difficult decision? Maybe it was a career path or relationship choice; you probably had all the information you needed and all that was left to do was to pull the trigger…or not.

As beautiful as this tree is, it seems unsure if it wants to change to autumn colors

For the boys, they each made a different decision. One shot and the other didn’t; and both decisions were correct for each situation. Both boys did harvest a deer during their first season, but they made sure it was the right decision for them in each situation.

In our family, we do a lot more praying about big decisions than we used to and because of that, we know we’ve made the right decision.

Proverbs 14:11 For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.